He was offering her ... all. But only ... into the now. .... refusing to make any real projections for the future. ... and that made her drive crazy. … an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru

He was offering her ... all. But only ... into the now. .... refusing to make any real projections for the future. ... and that made her drive crazy. … an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru

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So ... she was happy.

He made her ... happy.

... but also unhappy.

Happy today ... but somehow unhappy cause she didn't knew if this happiness will exist tomorrow also.

And ... still i was seeing them continuing the relationship.

More i was analysing her ... more i was feeling that her illusory unhappiness... was an induce sensation by the fear of not knowing what is going to happen into the future.

He was living the ... now.

She was living with the fear of losing... the now.

So ... somehow ... into one point they stop synchronising.

And ... all was ... obvious.

To me ... and everyone.

The fear ruined ... all.

 

... even if the relationship was amazing.

That beautiful woman ... with the look of a princess ... unfortunately ... with the passing of time ... became more and more ... a sad princess.

And still ... I could not understand the nonsense.

They were happy ... but ...

Yes ... there was a but.

He offered her all into the present moment ... but ... because of some weird illogical reasons ... he could not actually make any future projections with her.

... and she was driving crazy.

Repeating into her mind ... "How the hell he dares to not think of a future near me?!

It's illogical.

I am an amazing woman.

All men want me ... and he acts as an idiot.

... refusing any thoughts about future."

But .... he knew ... she was different than other women.

... and also difficult.

In fact ... very difficult.

Acting like a princess ... and always being dominated of those devils of princess.

Non stop ... changing the dynamic of all ... making him realise he will never know what the hell is going to happen tomorrow.

He loved her.

He knew that such a woman ... should be just tasted and abandoned... and not make any plans with her ... cause the only thing that he could get from her .... was to be ruined

 

emotionally.

Fortunately ... or unfortunately ... the love was stronger ... so the compromise was that ... he continued all ... but only daring to think at the present moment.

Nothing else.

... no other projection.

No thought about the future.

Cause ... it was all a fear related with tomorrow .... not knowing what to expect anymore from her.

I've continued ... analysing them.

... but couldn't conclude anything.

It was a story ... about love.

100%.

Their love .... but also about her love for that princess ... she thought she was.

... having lots of expectations.

Things .... which were driving him crazy ... being afraid of doing anything for their future.

So ... the focus was into the now.

Only into the now.

And ... nothing else.

But ... maybe he was right ... and all was for him ... a way of understanding how to focus only and only into the present moment.

Ignoring ... anything else.

So ... all became ... like a vicious circle.

Her expectations ... overwhelmed him ... driving him crazy ... but still doing all his best to make her happy.

And ... his fears of seeing the future near her ... was driving

 

her crazy also.

All ... ruining in fact ... the relationship itself.

So ...

Yes ... i have no conclusion.

Or maybe ... i would dare to say that even if all is perfect ... we don't know how to handle ... what is going on.

We should just enjoy ... the now.

And ... stop thinking about anything else.

 

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